Monday, July 30, 2012

The Traditional Bookstore's Fight for Survival


Bookstores across the country are fighting for their very survival.  We are living in an age where virtually anything can be downloaded onto your computer from the comforts of your home with the click of a mouse button.  And while technology allows us the ability to shop from home, merchants have had to take measures to keep up with the new age that we are living in.

Bookstores had to think of creative and innovative ways to compete with on-line shopping sources like Amazon, Barnes and Noble and Books-A-Million.  They have found themselves competing with eBook hardware like Nooks and Kindles, and with the advent of these tools come the associated technology that continuously lowers the price of books from the standard $15.00 to the average of $5.00.

Many bookstores that found themselves flourishing in the Eighties and Nineties have closed up shop because of the inability to compete.  Still, other bookstores have elected to fight the good fight to the bitter end, choosing to re-invent themselves to keep their doors open.

Some have elected to change their formal title from being known as a simple bookstore to becoming a literary/literacy center.  Others have gone the route of becoming their own publisher and distributer, making the works of their own authors available at their location alone.  Some have turned to becoming a literary café; serving food, coffee, and cold drinks while people browse their shelves for the next great read.  And others have decided to implement various strategies by selling other merchandise that cannot be obtained in other mainstream stores – items such as paintings, sculptures and tee-shirts.  Indeed, this is a fight that wages on, and while some stores have won, others have fallen and others have teetered on the brink of success. 

MeJah Books located in the Tri State Mall in Claymont, Delaware is an example of such a bookstore that is in the process of re-inventing itself, desperately holding onto to its place within the public sector.  Instead of electing to close the doors forever, the owner has elected to become a mecca for culture and creativity within the community.  Today, The Examiner sits down with the staff of MeJah Books Incorporated to talk about how the implementation of technology has impacted the growth of this store, and what the owner intends to do to fight back!

JL:  In your opinion, how has the book buying public changed over the last five years and how has this impacted you?   

MeJah:  The habits of the buying public began to change in 2007 and with each passing year it has become more of a challenge due to economical and technological influences – such as layoffs, terminations, company shut downs and the increase of eBooks purchases and hardware.  Gradually, regular customers weren’t coming as frequent, sales decreased throughout the week, non-frequent customers began to be bold and boast about better sales (deals) at Borders, Walmart and flea markets.  They also cited the Nook, iPad and  Kindle as the replacement for printed books.


JL:  What is it about your store as well as other stores like yours that makes it special?

MeJah:  The compassion, creativity and hospitality of the shopkeeper as well as her co-workers set MeJah Books apart from any other book store that you may visit in the tri-state area.  Emlyn DeGannes, affectionately known as Ms. Em (Ms. M) by her customers was raised in a village in Trinidad, West Indies until age thirteen when she migrated to the States with her family.  Her education and experience helped forge her dreams into a reality and MeJah Books was born fourteen years ago today.  It is more than just a bookstore. Ms. Em has created a peaceful atmosphere that revives and uplifts the human spirit. It is a haven for artists to network and a cultural center to educate the young and old.  Through her bookstore, she teaches the community near and far how to be a better human being by becoming the change they want to see in the world.


JL:  Would you provide examples of how you have become a staple within the community?

MeJah:  MeJah Books has been a service to the Tri-State community since 1998: an authorized shipper to institutions as well as an inspiration to the many men and women that are incarcerated, mentoring at-risk youth through reading and creative writing, initiated Toys for Children with Incarcerated Parents and is known for its outstanding customer service, hospitality and events. 

JL:  What efforts are you taking to keep your store alive?

MeJah: We are becoming more proficient in using social media accounts to advertise and promote the book store and our events, expanding the café area, offer free WiFi service to customers, host old school fun activities for children and adults, host dialogue exchanges on a variety topics for adults on relationships, manhood and finances-just to name a few.  We also offer free self-publishing seminars, jazz coffee mixers and speed dating events.  We will also be focusing on health and wellness by introducing a juice bar along with education.


JL:  With the shift towards stores becoming "literary centers" or "literary cafes", do you think that this would give you a competitive edge given that we are living in an age of e-readers? 

MeJah:  Yes, it would because we have learned that we cannot depend on just the sales of books alone. We must embrace the technological age and offer the tools needed to be a successful author and expand the café’ menu.  While social media has created a more social impact and has heightened dialoging, literary center or literary cafes are supporting the climate of change in technological time.


To learn more about MeJah Books, please visit their website:


 
J.L. Whitehead

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Could the Colorado Shooter have been the victim of bullying?


I could only imagine what it must have been like at the theatre in Aurora, Colorado.  The patrons that gathered for the midnight showing of “The Dark Knight Rises” had no way of knowing that a simple evening of fun would be turned into terror; their lives forever changed by a gunman who opened fire on them.
As of the printing of this article, there is still no reason given as to way the gunman, 24 year old James Holmes, decided to cold-heartedly execute 12 movie-goers and injure 58 more.  And I guess the question on everyone’s mind is “Why?”  Why did he do it?  What caused this man to snap?  Why did he methodically plan to kill so many people?  Does he even know or care that he took away someone’s child?  Someone’s mother?  Someone’s son?  Someone’s sister?  Someone’s father?  Someone’s brother?

The brother of one of the victims spoke in a voice that resonated with heartbreak, saying that he didn’t want the media to focus on the gunman.  He wanted the media to instead focus on the victims of this tragedy.  And though I agree with him, I still can’t help but wonder why the young gunman decided to take so many lives in such a public fashion. 

We all know that part of the healing process is making sense of the senseless.  Many of us need to know what was going on in the mind of this man so that we can prevent this type of tragedy from repeating itself.  I wondered if he was the victim of bullying since that seems to be the thread of commonality in crimes of this nature.  Was James Holmes the victim of bullying and if so, how long did it go on?  I’m sure that no one may care at the moment about his state of mind at that time that this horrific incident occurred.  At least not until it happens again.

Because today, parents hold onto their children just a little bit tighter.  Kisses are held just a little bit longer, and I-love-you is said with more sincerity.  We are reminded that life can turn on a dime and that sooner or later; we will have to leave this place called home.  Just ask the families of the twelve people that were lost on that fateful night.

But still, if James Holmes was the victim of bullying, could this all have been avoided?  If this were the reason for his actions, could it have been prevented if someone recognized the warning signs and took the appropriate actions?  Or am I reaching too high to make sense out of the senseless?

Because the simple reality is, if there were no bullying and the only signs that he exhibited is being a loner, then this makes this crime even more terrifying in its randomness.  In the days to come as the citizens of Aurora pull themselves together, we will find out more about what made this man do what he did.
The question remains, are we really ready for the answer?



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J.L. Whitehead

Friday, July 13, 2012

J.L. Whitehead reviews "When Jonathan Cried for Me" by Carter Lee


I’ve read many books that have addressed the issue of child abuse.  I’ve interviewed child abuse survivors at length.  Each individual that has opened up to me shared similar stories of abuse at the hands of an adult; abuse that changed their lives forever.

As more and more people come forward to tell their stories, one has to wonder just how often abuse happens to our children in this country.

  1.) We know that 1 out of 6 women in this country have been the victims of attempted or completed rape in her lifetime.  17.7 million American women have been the victims of attempted or completed rape.  9 out of 10 rape victims in 2003 were female.  These are horrible statistics.

But what we are now finding out now is the statistics are for men.  2.) Researchers have found that 1 in 6 men have experienced abusive sexual experiences before the age of 18.  Putting it another way, when you go on your lunch break tomorrow, look at the men on the street.  Count the number of men that you see.  Every sixth man has been a victim. Those odds may actually be a little bit higher because men are not as apt to talk about an abusive situation, and for good reason.  Most men were brought up to be strong, caretakers, leaders and protectors.  Our parents don’t tell us that at one point in time, we could be a victim.  It’s a thought that no parent wants to contemplate; but the denial of this fact doesn’t change the reality that statistics don’t lie.

It’s for this very reason that When Jonathan Cried for Me by author Carter Lee is deemed a must read for any man that may have suffered at the hands of a pedophile.  The author opens up and shares his issues and struggles as he fought to reclaim himself after suffering at the hands of an abusive neighbor.  He does not dwell on the actual acts that have been inflicted on him, but instead focuses on the path that he has taken to redemption.  He takes a no-nonsense approach; at most times speaking in his own dialect to get his point across.  It’s an approach that works because with men, you have to cut through the protective layers of our own defenses that we’ve built up to get at the root of the problem.  There are many men that are suffering today because someone took the liberty of claiming their innocence for personal pleasure. Carter Lee cuts through the technical jargon and talks about the where’s, what’s and whys of what has happened as well as what you can do about it now.  He talks about his anger issues that have plagued him throughout his adult life, and yet he didn’t know why.  Initially, he chalked it up to it being part of his make-up.  It wasn’t until he confronted what had been done with him that he realized that his emotions were thrown out of whack with the very first touch of his neighbor, and it resonated throughout his life.

When Jonathan Cried for Me is a powerful read that will hopefully help many men come to grips with what has happened to them.  And if this book helps just one person, then the time that the author spent in creating this work was worth it.

References:
1.)     RAINN – Rape Abuse and Incest National Network  http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

2.)     One in Six  - Info, Options, Hope  http://1in6.org/the-1-in-6-statistic/


 Author Carter Lee


















To learn more about this author or to purchase this work, please click on the link below!

www.whenjonathancriedforme.com

J.L. Whitehead